Finally caught up with a very dear friend and guide after a long time. Both of us were madly busy in our respective work. He is a passing-out senior, so he had all the final year woes. Somehow, missed having those little 'power talks' with him for the past three months.
He mentioned something interesting today" If you are in a serious relationship or love someone very badly, you need to have bad fights, very bad fights. That is when you see the worst side of each other. There cannot be anything worse than that."
For a compatible couple or even friends, it is of prime importance to be able to accept the person the way he/she is. If you don't love a person the way he/she is, you can never possibly love him/her . Reminds me of a little fight I had with a friend just a while back and I quote "If you can't accept me the way I am, that is your problem, not mine". Very obvious yes, somehow made so much more sense when expressed in words.
Something similar but not same: Ego should NEVER be a point of contention between two people who care for each other. Ego taking a backseat once in while to accommodate for the other is not a big deal. But ya, the other person should be careful enough not to take you for granted. A fine line - but that is the fun.
He mentioned something interesting today" If you are in a serious relationship or love someone very badly, you need to have bad fights, very bad fights. That is when you see the worst side of each other. There cannot be anything worse than that."
For a compatible couple or even friends, it is of prime importance to be able to accept the person the way he/she is. If you don't love a person the way he/she is, you can never possibly love him/her . Reminds me of a little fight I had with a friend just a while back and I quote "If you can't accept me the way I am, that is your problem, not mine". Very obvious yes, somehow made so much more sense when expressed in words.
Something similar but not same: Ego should NEVER be a point of contention between two people who care for each other. Ego taking a backseat once in while to accommodate for the other is not a big deal. But ya, the other person should be careful enough not to take you for granted. A fine line - but that is the fun.
3 comments:
hi lays. hope you are fine. but this blog er... makes me think otherwise. :-)
Ayyayo what senti shag you guys put man. :P
@ Mad Blogger,
Trust me, things are fine. More than just fine, in fact.
:-)
@ Czar,
You don't have a right to comment maga, did not even bother informing people.
About senti shag, what else do you expect when CB is around with his smoke :-)
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